where to find emily

Are you looking for the worksheets that accompany the audiobook of Come As You Are?

You'll find them here.

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Emily Nagoski is the award-winning  author of the New York Times bestseller, Come As You Are: the surprising new science that will transform your sex life. A gifted and engaging speaker, she is an expert on women's sexual wellbeing, healthy relationships, and the prevention of sexual violence and harassment. People bring Emily, because Emily "brings the science."

We're scheduling events for 2018, but her calendar is filling quickly. (She's finishing a new book, so her availability is limited.) You can see her calendarinvite her to speak, read more about the programs she offers (for trainings for professionals – therapists, medical providers, educators, etc – see pro trainings), and see/hear Emily in action.

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“This is the best book I have ever read exploring the science of female sexuality. I am a total evangelist for Nagoski’s work […]. You think you know how women’s sexuality works? I can guarantee that you do not. Not until you read this, anyway. The book is definitely great for college students and for bright high schoolers as well.

— Peggy Orenstein, author of Girls and Sex


“This is the best book I have ever read about sexual desire and why some couples just stop having sex, and what they can do about it. … It is a must read!”

— John Gottman, author of Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work


“[O]ne of the most important books about sex any woman (or anybody else) could ever pick up, full of insights that are both fascinating and deeply useful. … I guarantee Come As You Are will open minds and change lives."

— Carol QUeen, Ph.D., Founding director, Center for Sex & CUlture